待我如初 (As Before) [大头针版] Lyrics Translated to English | 大头针

大头针 sings a heartbreaking ballad about a love that has lost its spark. 唐思淼 and 齐修远 write the lyrics and compose the music. The song shows a painful shift from constant communication to excuses. It offers a raw look at fading intimacy.

待我如初 (As Before) [大头针版] Lyrics Translated to English | 大头针
Released: November 20, 2025

待我如初 (As Before) [大头针版]

大头针

Lyricist
唐思淼, 齐修远
Composer
唐思淼, 齐修远

待我如初 (As Before) [大头针版] Lyrics English Translation by 大头针

唐思淼 writes that before, messages answered in seconds and nights were filled with endless talk. 齐修远 sings that the feeling of newness fades, yet the narrator understands the logic. The lyrics show a stark contrast between past warmth and present distance.

Dai Wo Ru ChuTreat me like you used to.
Wo Hen Mang Wo Hen Fan Wo Hen Lei Wo Mei KongI’m busy, I’m annoyed, I’m tired, and I’m not free.
Ni Mei You Shi Jian De Li You Shang Bai ZhongYou’ve got a hundred reasons why you don’t have time.
Wo Bu Cai Wo Bu Shuo Wo Bu Wen Wo Bu BenI don’t guess, I don’t speak, I don’t ask, and I’m not stupid.
Ni Jiu Lian Yan Bu You Zhong Dou Lan De He Wo Mai NongYou’re even too lazy to pretend you’re sincere with me.
Cong Qian Xiao Xi Miao Hui Che Ye Chang Tan Wu Hua Bu ShuoBefore, you’d reply in seconds, and we’d talk all night about everything.
Mei Tian Fen Xiang Ri Chang Man Man Ai Shang Ni De Xiao RongWe shared our daily lives, and I slowly fell for your smile.
Re Wo Bu Kai Xin Hui Ren Zhen De HongIf I was ever unhappy, you’d work hard to cheer me up.
Jiu Pa Wo Men Tou Bu Shuo Ni Dao Di Na Li Zuo CuoI’m just afraid we’ll keep quiet about where you went wrong.
Xian Zai Wo De Qi Dai Wo De Xu Qiu Jing Chang Luo KongNow, my expectations and my needs always fall through.
Xin Xian Gan Hui Liu Dong Dao Li Wo Dou DongNovelty always fades; I understand the logic.
Ni Zhuan Yi Ai He Zun Zhong Tian Yi Wu FengYou’ve shifted your love and respect ‘seamlessly’ and flawlessly.
Yi Qian De Wen Rou Gan Dong Jiu Xiang Feng Lu Guo Wo De Tian KongThe old tenderness and warmth are like a breeze passing through my sky.
Wo Hen Mang Wo Hen Fan Wo Hen Lei Wo Mei KongI’m busy, I’m annoyed, I’m tired, and I’m not free.
Ni Mei You Shi Jian De Li You Shang Bai ZhongYou’ve got a hundred reasons why you don’t have time.
Wo Bu Cai Wo Bu Shuo Wo Bu Wen Wo Bu BenI don’t guess, I don’t speak, I don’t ask, and I’m not stupid.
Ni Jiu Lian Yan Bu You Zhong Dou Lan De He Wo Mai NongYou’re even too lazy to pretend you’re sincere with me.
Wo Bu Xiang Wo Bu Yuan Wo Bu Bian Wo Mei KongI don’t want this, I’m not willing, I won’t change, and I’m not free.
Ni Zhang Zhe Wo De Tui Rang You Shi Wu KongYou’re taking advantage of my backing down because you’ve got ‘nothing to fear’.
Wo Ai Guo Wo Ku Guo Wo Fang Guo Wo Shi KongI’ve loved, I’ve cried, I’ve let go, and I’ve lost control.
Qing Xu Dou Shi Wu Yong Gong Wo Bu Zai Shi Ni Zai Hu De RenThese emotions are all in vain; I’m not the one you care about anymore.
Xian Zai Wo De Qi Dai Wo De Xu Qiu Jing Chang Luo KongNow, my expectations and my needs always fall through.
Xin Xian Gan Hui Liu Dong Dao Li Wo Dou DongNovelty always fades; I understand the logic.
Ni Zhuan Yi Ai He Zun Zhong Tian Yi Wu FengYou’ve shifted your love and respect ‘seamlessly’ and flawlessly.
Yi Qian De Wen Rou Gan Dong Jiu Xiang Feng Lu Guo Wo De Tian KongThe old tenderness and warmth are like a breeze passing through my sky.
Wo Hen Mang Wo Hen Fan Wo Hen Lei Wo Mei KongI’m busy, I’m annoyed, I’m tired, and I’m not free.
Ni Mei You Shi Jian De Li You Shang Bai ZhongYou’ve got a hundred reasons why you don’t have time.
Wo Bu Cai Wo Bu Shuo Wo Bu Wen Wo Bu BenI don’t guess, I don’t speak, I don’t ask, and I’m not stupid.
Ni Jiu Lian Yan Bu You Zhong Dou Lan De He Wo Mai NongYou’re even too lazy to pretend you’re sincere with me.
Wo Bu Xiang Wo Bu Yuan Wo Bu Bian Wo Mei KongI don’t want this, I’m not willing, I won’t change, and I’m not free.
Ni Zhang Zhe Wo De Tui Rang You Shi Wu KongYou’re taking advantage of my backing down because you’ve got ‘nothing to fear’.
Wo Ai Guo Wo Ku Guo Wo Fang Guo Wo Shi KongI’ve loved, I’ve cried, I’ve let go, and I’ve lost control.
Qing Xu Dou Shi Wu Yong Gong Wo Bu Zai Shi Ni Zai Hu De RenThese emotions are all in vain; I’m not the one you care about anymore.

待我如初 (As Before) [大头针版] Music Video

The 待我如初 (As Before) lyrics meaning shows how the narrator feels the warmth fade and the love shift. It highlights the pain of being left behind.